In this post, I share with you 8 of the best crystals for attracting love. I break the list down into two categories: crystals I used to attract my current partner and additional crystals known for attracting love.
Some of these crystals are well known to be “love” crystals while others are not so obvious but still extremely helpful to find lasting love. If you read to the end, you’ll learn of a bonus crystal that can be used for attracting (spiritual) relationships.
Crystals I Used to Attract Love
1. Rhodonite
I would consider this THE CRYSTAL to use when attracting love into your life.
Rhodonite helps release blockages in the Heart Chakra and allows space for love and romantic partnership. This crystal is ideal for those who are looking to feel empathy for others and be open to truly unconditional love.
In the year leading up to meeting my current partner, I would hold this stone or place it underneath my pillow while listening to this meditation in the evenings.
2. Pink Moonstone
Moonstone is a lovely crystal to use to help remove emotional blockages and offer calming energy during times of transition. Pink Moonstone adds an extra layer of free-flowing energy by connecting the Sacral and Heart Chakras together and inviting love, passion, and joy into your life. I think being happy with yourself and your life is necessary to attract the right partner for you.
I would place this crystal on my window sill or outside during full moons to recharge the energy and promote love and joy.
3. Desert Rose (Selenite)
Desert Rose is a variation of Selenite that is excellent at cleansing and balancing all aspects of life. It is a great crystal to hold during meditation to help gain clarity on various challenges or questions you have. It is also a useful tool to guide you through personal transformations.
I used this stone when I was no longer feeling aligned in life and needed insight on whether a potential suitor or direction was right for me.
4. Sodalite
An unexpected but helpful crystal I used during my quest for love is Sodalite: the Poet’s Stone. This crystal is used for developing a deep understanding of a situation and quieting the mind.
Given its connection to the Throat Chakra, I would carry this stone around to help encourage me to speak my truth and be honest with myself and others as I went on dates and spent time with potential partners.
During 2021 and early 2022, I was healing from my previous relationship and wanting to align with finding a true life-long partnership. I found crystals to be helpful with the healing process and gaining clarity on who I wanted to be in my next relationship as well as who I wanted my partner to be. The crystals would be near me during meditation and yoga as well as carried in my purse or pocket throughout the day.
Additional Crystals to Attract Love
1. Rose Quartz
This crystal is possibly the most popular crystal used to attract love into the present moment.
Rose Quartz is used to open the Heart Chaka by clearing out emotional blocks and former relationships, making space for love in all areas of life. Some affirmations that can be used while holding Rose Quartz are: “I am worthy of love” and “I attract positive love into my orbit.”
2. Pink Amethyst
A recently discovered crystal, Pink Amethyst offers abundant feminine energy and a connection to your nurturing, peaceful, happy self. Pink Amethyst is associated with the Heart Chakra and promotes emotional healing. This crystal can also be used to attract your soul mate.
Place this crystal in your bedroom or living room to promote self-love and love within the home.
3. Rhodochrosite
Compassion, acceptance, and selfless love – three feelings you can expect when you use rhodochrosite.
This crystal is a powerful tool to heal emotional wounds and find emotional stability. Rhodochrosite is also useful to go deeper in your relationships and foster stronger bonds. Imagine being able to freely love another without any expectation or need.
Fun Fact: Rhodochrosite is the state mineral of Colorado!
4. Hyalite Opal
Hyalite Opal is generally used to work with the Crown Chakra to gain insights and enhance mental clarity. This crystal is also known to be a psychic stone that can help guide you to make the right choices, especially when held during meditation or sleep.
These uses translate to finding love by offering a means to figure out yourself and in hand be able to become (and find) the ideal partner. Clarity of the mind is clarity of the heart.
I did not use these crystals to attract love into my life, but do have them in my collection and through research learned their benefits to finding a romantic partnership. Another crystal that is widely known to bring love into your life is garnet. I do not own a raw or tumbled piece of garnet so I did not add it to this list.
Bonus Crystal
1. Seraphinite
Seraphinite on the surface does not seem to be a stone to use for love. It is used to break through habits and bring about positive energy and growth.
I add this crystal to the list, however, because Seraphinite has the ability to connect you with spiritual beings and angels, opening up the possibility to connect with a soul that you have a connection to that is beyond this world. This intense “twin flame” connection does not always end in a lifelong partnership, however, if you want this type of experience this lifetime, Seraphinite can encourage such a meeting.
Combined List
The full list of useful crystals to attract love into your life is:
- Rhodonite
- Pink Moonstone
- Desert Rose (Selenite)
- Sodalite
- Rose Quartz
- Pink Amethyst
- Rhodochrosite
- Hyalite Opal
- Seraphinite
It seems a lot of these crystals have that pink/peach color to them…hm…must be a theme here…haha!
Let me know in the comments if there are any crystals you like to use for love. I look forward to connecting.
Thank you for reading and have a lovely day.
